Why does my affections bother him ?
May 27th, 2010
When I try to show my husband that I want him, it seems to bother him. If I give him a sexy look, he looks away, if I say something sexy to him, he turns his head and laughs it off. If I send him a romantic ecard, he reads it but doesn’t say anything. We are intimate about once a week if I’m lucky and sometimes it’s two weeks which about drives me bonkers. So what am I doing wrong ?
We’ve only been married for 6 months. He is 54 and I’m 53. Maybe it’s an age thing.
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you’ve married a gay man.
or a man with a very low sex drive
or a man with a serious hang up about sex.
the only thing you’ve done wrong is marry someone who either doesn’t like sex or just has a very different attitude about sex or has a sex drive that is out of synch with yours.
This is about your husband. There is nothing you can do that will entice him to have sex with you more often. Get into counseling (you can’t communicate with him on a very basic, primal level where all husbands and wives should be able to communicate–you need a mediator or an intervention). Then decide if your marriage was a mistake or if this situation is workable for you.
I don’t believe that you’re doing anything wrong, it’s could be that he’s one probably has just become bored and lost the drive for sex and the interest to be romantic or the worst possibility is that he’s probably not attracted to you anymore or he is cheating you. overall the best thing you can do is talk to him and ask him what’s going on and what would like to do to spice up the relationship.
I have the same issue only I am like your husband, and I will tell you the reason why I do it. And in no way am I saying that these are his reasons; it may just give you insight on what people possibly are thinking with his similar issue.
Me and my daughter’s father were together for 3 straight years, had a good relationship, then went out separate ways. I moved on for another 2-3 years and now we are trying to work things out (I guess) for the past year. He is a pretty decent guy, pretty good with his daughter (no one can replace mommy!), and very attractive. The problem is I don’t really feel like having any type of sex with him. I am on medication that can slow down your sex drive but I don’t fully blame in on that because I can see other people and get that “feeling”. I am a very sexual person but when we do have sex I am very uninvolved and it sucks because I wanna let it all out…just not so much with him.I think I am too comfortable with him and the mystery is gone. I am no longer infatuated with him and no longer do I get butterflies and I feel like its because I have known him for such a looong time.
So to answer your question, maybe he’s too comfortable with you aka the honeymoon phase is over. Or, and I hope this isn’t the case, maybe he wants to or already is having sex with someone else.