I am at a loss of words. I would like to send a friend of mine a birthday message through one of those ecards. This man is very special to me but he was not ready for a relationship and I was so I decided to move on. I believe he still loves me and I love him also, but we cant be together right now. To quell the pain I decided not to communicate with him, but still feel its right to send him a b-day message. Any ideas? I just want a message to send him that says I wish you the best and happy birthday but in an elegant way.
Just be straight forward. Keep it simple with a lack of deep emotion. Something simple like happy birthday. Don’t give a reason for him to want to read between the lines. Don’t try to open a dialog. If he returns a dialog, then move into conversation with him. But if you get a short sentence or on word reply…..Let it be.